HOW WE SET THE TABLE

We believe that a key to interacting in a Christ-like way is to hold certain values at the heart of our conversations. Therefore, prior to diving in, we mutually assent to the following statements as a way of “setting the table.”

1

EXTEND AND RECEIVE WELCOME

We support each other’s learning by giving and receiving hospitality. Truly, all are welcome at The Table.

2

BE PRESENT AS FULLY AS POSSIBLE

Come as you are with your beliefs, joys and successes as well as your doubts fears and failures. There is a seat for you at The Table.

3

PARTICIPATION IS BY INVITATION, NOT DEMAND

You know yourself best. Participate out loud only as you feel comfortable. There is no judgment at The Table.

4

LISTEN WELL AND LEARN FROM SILENCE

Silence can feel awkward, but it is a gift in our noisy world and a way of learning in itself. Silence does not indicate a lack of participation at The Table.

5

NO FIXING,SAVING, OR JUDGING OTHERS

We promote a safe space for honest conversation using “I” statements and open questions, not advice or critique. Honest and open dialogue is the foundation of The Table.

6

EXPECT TO ENCOUNTER MYSTERY AND PARADOX

Both enrich our lives and help us understand the complexities of life and faith. We embrace “both-ands” versus “either-ors” at The Table.

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ATTEND TO YOUR OWN INNER TEACHER

As we explore scripture together, we also have a unique opportunity to learn from our own reflections and reactions. Our intellect and the knowledge that comes through our spiritual intuition and emotions will be trusted at The Table.